de bi t ch. [Happiness is a journey, not a destination.]

Saturday, May 12, 2007

i was blog-surfing and found something really hmm...

"don't worry so much about pleasing people but do what you want and not think about what others think. it's not about being self-centred nor being oblivious because sometimes you just can't please everyone, nor can you stop others from talking about you. so just do whatever you want and whatever that makes you happy!"

refreshing? well i don't know cos i think i used to think like that. like i didn't care (much). hehe :P so much so that, people started saying that i'm selfish and all i care about myself. but honestly is it wrong to think/feel that way? i mean, i think it's important to be happy. and honestly, i don't think and i know, that i can't please everyone. so why even try? so long as i don't hurt people deliberate, it's fine right? man, i don't know.

last time i knew that i can't please everyone and i knew that there bound to have people that will talk about you or disapprove of your doings. but that never stop me from being who i am. because i always thought to myself that whatever it is, i still have very good friends who stood by me. and that was all that matter. and that is still all that matter, just that it's harder now. cos they aren't by my side. and that's why i'm struggling. cos sometimes i feel like the whole world is against me. it's like "me against the whole world". and i start become negative and paranoid about everything. which is bad.

so how? should i be like what that person say? and just heck? or should i try to please everyone? well i think there need to be a balance. right?

well...

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